There are colleges filled with normal people who weren’t in twenty clubs and president of all of them. They are happy people who love their college years. They go on to have successful, happy lives.
And some of those superstar kids end up doing nothing glamorous and lead very ordinary lives too.
You’ve got years of life and experiences ahead of you. Time is too precious to waste worrying about how you compare to others. Make a balanced list of colleges where your stats are on par with most accepted students. Talk to your GC at school. You can also post your stats and relevant info in the College Search and Selection forum and we can help you find schools. College Search & Selection - College Confidential Forums
Go out and be yourself. There is a college for you and you will be fine.