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<p>So, what’s the solution? That the have-nots should not go to pricey privates populated by the affluent? They should stick to community college or state colleges? </p>
<p>My family was poor and I went to an expensive private school on financial aid. I didn’t realize how poor we were until I met some of the truly rich and even the just well-off. And I also met people even poorer than me (I’ll never forget going to dinner with a friend on a day the school cafeteria was closed, and he said he “wasn’t hungry” and got the side salad – because he only had 50 cents to his name. And my other friend who took 3 classes one semester because she couldn’t afford the books.) </p>
<p>So yes, I totally understand what it feels like to be poor surrounded by the wealthy. And as college costs increase and financial aid for middle class families decline, this is becoming a greater issue.</p>
<p>But if a poor kid gets a great financial aid package, should s/he NOT go to college for this reason? Heck, poor kids can see people with iPhones and iPads and designer clothing just by watching TV.</p>
<p>Now, the OP is in a totally different situation. She didn’t get the aid she needs, clearly cannot afford BU, and should not go. If she had gotten into a school that met full need, that’s an entirely different story.</p>