<p>Just a tip, Aychoi84, and one that I’ve picked up after waiting politely for people (and fuming) for years. Assume that everyone with whom you ever come into contact needs a day-before reconfirmation or appointment reminder, and a followup phone call if they’re not where they said they’d be 10-15 minutes after the appointed time.</p>
<p>And in the reminder email, don’t say “are we still on” – which offends reliable people. Just say “Just wanted to let you know I am looking forward to our meeting at 2 p.m. tomorrow. Here’s my cell number. Please call if for any reason you’re running late…” or some such.</p>
<p>I realize that doesn’t assist you now, but I am sorry you went through that disappointment. Don’t take it personally.</p>