He asked everyone be together when he knows the issue isn’t resolved. He also in 10 months never discussed it with my wife for more than a minute or two a couple of times.
I wasn’t really singling him out. He asked for everyone to be together and we are not ready at this time. We have celebrated other things without everyone being together. We are also more than happy to take him to dinner with out family to celebrate.
But he never really asked my wife for the full story.