<p>It’s helpful to have others who at least understand the situation!</p>
<p>megpmom, I jokingly tell my daughter she needs to find a hobby, as an aside, that is very popular with straight men if she wants to “find a husband.” And not just straight men, but straight men who make a lot of money. She said “so I can’t marry a musician, then” and I said “HELL no, someone has to pay the bills!” She said “well then I don’t even need to go to college in that case” and I said “oh yes you do, trophy wives need to have an education so they can make intelligent small talk at parties.” hahaha.</p>
<p>As far as ending up like poor Lohan, my daughter is about the most sensible, head on straight, unmoved by foolish peer pressure child I’ve ever seen. That’s one thing I’m really not concerned about.</p>