@PurpleTitan
I second that.
@rebmob That can happen if the criterion for both the ranking systems are different.
It appears, at the end of the day, that your choice of applications was better thought out than your friend’s. You seem to have applied to schools that wanted you-- for whatever reasons-- and your friend seems to have applied to schools that didn’t want her. I think maybe it’s less a matter of your qualifications vs. hers than one of realistic expectations.
Guilt should kick in when you’ve done something wrong. You haven’t. You can feel sympathy or empathy, but you have nothing to feel guilty about.
Congratulations!
For anyone on the outside looking in the admissions process will not necessarily seem logical or fair, what ever fair actually means. Unless there are blatant disparities in someone’s academic credentials relative to the the normal ranges of accepted students there is always a reason. That is a good thing! Given what you have indicated you are clearly bright, you believe you weren’t worthy based on your GPA, you clearly had other positive elements of your application that were compelling and valued that more than made up for your supposed low GPA.
I appreciate your feelings in regard to your good fortune versus the results of other friends or peers. That shows humility and compassion.
You are entitled to celebrate your success. Best Wishes to you!
No reason to feel guilty at all. It’s your life, and you should feel proud of yourself for getting into such great universities.