Yes U should not apply ED. Y I asked the question that made everyone so upset.
I’m not buying that people drop like it’s no big deal. So I agree with your disbelief of this.
Yes legally u can leave unlike the old days when a school could make your life miserable but people should take their initial commitment as it was made.
But it’s also why I said the way people are saying the kid decides, everyone should and would apply ED - not sure why that upset people. They practically confirmed that to you.