Of course this part of your story jumps out. Is there no solution for his? No life coach? No other options, such as working for himself? My FIL had Aspergers (known after the fact) and he had to work for himself. He never would have lasted working for others. He became an independent insurance agent. His wife, (My MIL) was really the “face” of the agency, but he was the one with the license who took care of the details. She was the public interface.