<p>DITTO’s to all of the above and most especially to Whistle Pig’s final comment. The one thing that stands out the most to me and makes the biggest difference is Parental LOVE, SUPPORT, and INVOLVEMENT, as evident based on all the parents participating on these threads. Our greatest gift to our children is a foundation of LOVE and BELIEF. If they have a solid foundation to jump from they tend to jump higher more often and in turn reach greater heights. Male or female the child that has SOMEONE to believe in them will take more risks. Those most successful (not famous) in our society are those who are willing to take a chance.</p>