<p>What was your first choice? Do you let them know you want to pledge first and then they give you a bid? Can you get multiple bids? What is the process on giving bids out? Do they vote? How involved do you have to be in the faternity once you are in?Can you keep up with all your work in school? Sorry so many questions… The real important question What about pledging ? How long is the process? When is it finished and what exactly is involved? I think parents need an informational meeting.</p>