<p>My first choice was Phi Sigma Kappa, and thats one of the two places i got bids from. In order to get a bid you basically come to their rush week events, act nice to them, and if they like you and you invest a lot of time you might get a bid. Some places are selective and some places give away a ton of them. Yes, in most places the brothers vote on which kids they want to join. As for all the stuff involving pledging, etc, i really dont know bc i havent done it yet. The process is 6-8 weeks long and most places promise that it wont affect your grades. Oh, and there was a parents informational meeting, back during family weekend…my parents liked it…</p>