<p>Hi Thanks for all your info on fraternities at Cornell. My son did participate in rush week and was asked to join a fraternity. He was very happy when I spoke with him .This is all new to me.I guess he wanted my approval because there are extra fees involved. I did look at the chapters but they are all pretty general. Are there any in particular to avoid for any reason? Also do you have to live in the house and if not can you participate in the meal plan? Thanks for all the information.</p>