<p>Beastman,
Why wouldn’t you talk about this with your kids? My family has experienced suicide. I talk often with my college aged kids about sadness, depression and its potential for suicidal thoughts and actions. You never know which kids will have troubles. Don’t let it seem like a taboo subject</p>
<p>A moving response from Andrew’s dad in the comments after the article in the Trib
" Rick Siebenaler said:
November 18th, 2009 at 9:19 am
To the many friends of Andrew at Marquette, to those he knew and those he did not, I extend our familys deepest gratitude for your thoughts and prayers.</p>
<p>Andrew was a beautiful ray of light in our lives. As his father, I cannot express how great an influence he has had in my life. His mother and sister were equally touched by Andrew, every day.</p>
<p>Please continue to share your feelings with the Marquette community. It is in reading messages such as these that we find comfort and the strength to move ahead.</p>
<p>In response to Renesmee Jackson Andrew was happy, joyful and joygiving by nature. But, as many of us do, he experienced times of deep sadness. Andrew made a devastating and irretrievable decision when he was unable to see beyond the pain he felt during a moment of despair. In that moment, he did not reach out to those who loved him and who might have helped him. </p>
<p>Students, faculty and frieds at Marquette: learn from Andrews decision. Reach out if you are in need; reach out to those in need. Know that the darkness of despair can touch us all. For those in pain, have confidence, know that you are not alone and that even in the darkest moments, there is a ray of light for you. As these messages attest, you are blessed, as Andrew was, to live within a community of love and support. Be part of it. And pledge now to draw upon it in what may be your hour of need.</p>
<p>As shared by Andrews RA after his death: So know this, there are strong arms around you with God. I know He loves you and you live on with me, forever in my heart. Stride Forward.</p>
<p>With great love, Rick Siebenaler (Andrews dad)</p>