Thanks everyone for taking time out of your day to respond and for the advice! This is my first post so I wasn’t sure what to expect so I really do appreciate it! Just to give some more info for people that asked I signed up for some of the same activities I did in high school like model un, mock trial, the newspaper, volunteering, etc. I also signed up for a few new things like dance, improv, and women’s weightlifting. Most of these clubs haven’t started regular meetings yet but hopefully, they will help! I’m also definitely going to take your advice to start going to the gym regularly and study in the common room. I guess I just never expected to end up as one of those people who struggled to make friends because I never felt socially insecure in high school however I’m learning that this kind of thing happens to everyone, and I need to stay patient and keep trying.