<p>skatespin - I’m sure my daughter felt the same way about us as you are feeling about your parents when we did not pay for her to attend her first choice school. Instead, she attended her safety school (AU) because she received the Presidential Scholarship. You know what? She is loving AU even though at the time she did not want to attend. So, even if you don’t end up at AU you will probably love where you do attend. Every family has different circumstances. I hope AU increases your merit aid and if they do not - I hope you love and are successful at the school you do attend. </p>
<p>nina - good luck to you at AU. Listen to the other advice and take advantage of all the school has to offer!</p>