Most any flagship or similar in the US would be targets and safeties.
Bigger co-ed and rigor can be had anywhere.
Do you have a geography or weather or are you into sports or greek life or anywhere else?
Does money matter? You say it’s not a factor but if I told you that U of Arizona would be $25K a year and U Wisconsin $60K a year - in essence the same thing - would that impact your parental decision on $$?
Is large 30K or 10K.
Do you prefer cities vs. suburban vs. rural.
Help us out so we don’t give you a list of 1000 colleges.
Thanks