<p>My D, who is straight, has been an officer in the QSA. And that kind of boundary crossing seems to be a major element of the campus culture, beyond the gay community. You find non-Asian students in the South Asian society shows, Asians in the breakdancing troupe, and perhaps half of the gospel choir is non-African-American. That attitude on campus of not merely accepting differences but enthusiastically embracing them is inspiring to me; it seems like a glimpse of how the larger world should and perhaps could be.</p>