<p>Really, for most people these days it’s just not a big deal. Who cares? As Cardinal Fang says, it’s creepy to imagine or speculate about people’s private lives like that. In my experience the people who seem most fixated on the orientation or practices of others are those who are not secure in their own sexuality. Witness the long list of politicians and televangelists who oppose marriage equality or attempt to “pray the gay away”…but have themselves been caught in compromising situations with someone of the same sex.</p>