<p>I’m probably far too late to help but WashU (go there) and Northwestern (live nearby) are both extremely gay friendly. My firsthand experience is obviously from WashU and I’ve never experienced such acceptance (although, it may be more difficult for women). GLBTIQ people are accepted in every facet of the community - every greek house has them (and one of my best friends is “big man on campus”, business council president, and in SigEp(one of the most sought after frats)). Just in case you decided to put it off til next semester…</p>