@NYguy09. I suggested in your other thread that you look at some threads from last year that directly address your questions. Here’s one. http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/texas-m-university/1618136-will-a-california-student-like-a-m-p1.html
You could also contact: http://studentlife.tamu.edu/glbt
Now I’m a 66-old parent and I found both these links in a minute. I think you will not find it a problem to be a a gay man from NY/NJ. I don’t think you will do well at A&M or any college if you expect others to do your work for you.