<p>@UnhappyWendy, I myself transferred after my freshman year (Carleton --> University of Michigan) and my older daughter also transferred (University of South Carolina --> Ithaca College). So I hope you are able to transfer to somewhere which is a better fit.</p>
<p>While you are at Wellesley, do enjoy the aspects that you may not find elsewhere - the “civilized” living (no drunken parties at all hours keeping you up at night) - and students who are intellectually engaged with their studies as a matter of course.</p>
<p>I really don’t think it’s easy to find a college that has it all.</p>