<p>Speaking as someone who applied RD, but reads a lot and talks to a lot of people, ED cold feet is just something that happens, you fell in love with a school but because you’re a rational person, you understand that nowhere is perfect and as that thought occurs to you you’re wondering if you made the right choice. From everything I know about Wesleyan, it seems to match up with your interests very well. As to your specific concerns I do not know any more than you about a lot of them, but I do know that socioeconomic diversity is a problem at a lot of top notch schools, but that one tour guide isn’t indicative of a whole class, both economic status-wise and sensitivity-wise. I, for one, have applied as a financial aid candidate and am about square in the middle of middle class for my area. On a related note, could you elaborate on what you mean by “inconsistent” in regards to financial aid?</p>