<p>All you can do is keep reminding them about everyone’s chores. Don’t just tell them to help out–specifically ask them to do their dishes or take out the trash. Perhaps, you could have a rule about everyone doing their own dishes within a certain amount of time, or they have to store them somewhere else. Don’t do their dishes for them. If it bothers you, just don’t look at it. If they’re home doing nothing, remind them to do whatever chore they’re supposed to do.</p>
<p>But also, be reasonable. Your standards may be higher than everyone else’s, and you can’t always expect them to do everything the way you want them to. If it really bothers you that much, yes, you’re going to have to just do it yourself. You may not think you’re a clean freak, but other people may feel like you are. It may be a matter of finding other people to live with than trying to turn them all into you.</p>