<p>hoe-attracting activities:</p>
<p>yoga, walking a small “cute” dog, cooking</p>
<p>(to add to sockpuppet’s post) </p>
<p>How to attract hoes:</p>
<p>Drive a really nice car, wear an expensive watch, tip 50%, walk around in all the latest metro fashions, wear two sunglasses at a time - one on top of your head, the other wrapped around the back of your head, upside down. </p>
<p>How to attract girls you’ll actually want to talk to:</p>
<p>Be easy-going, don’t try too hard, be a good listener, be open and friendly (easiest way to do this is SMILE!) and don’t think about it too much. Girls can tell in a second if a guy is awkward/uncomfortable and therefore makes conversation awkward. Pretend you’re talking to a guy friend (but don’t mention anything about hot girls, booty, Jenna Jameson etc)</p>
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<p>nooooo noo noo. act this way with girls whom you are NOT interested in sexually, because you’re sure as hell not going to sleep with a girl who you treat like a guy friend. at best you’ll be one of those dudes who acts friendly all the time and secretly hopes that all the face time he’s netting with her will somehow magically translate into her deciding to get with him one day (it won’t.)</p>
<p>the whole point of flirting is to communicate the message that you’re down to get physical. you should never be direct about it - guys who broadcast their sexuality are perceived as threatening and creepy - but you should be getting the point across in subtle ways. look at her lips, purse yours slightly, angle your body towards hers with your legs open, gaze into her eyes, all that good stuff.* if she’s into you she will respond positively; if not, you should get the hint and stop. </p>
<p>girls don’t like men who effectively neuter themselves by turning off their sexuality, they dig guys who are sexual beings without making it obvious. </p>
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<li>this could very well be how you interact with your guy friends, in which case mapletree’s point is valid…</li>
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<p>“look at her lips, purse yours slightly, angle your body towards hers with your legs open, gaze into her eyes, all that good stuff”</p>
<p>That sounds a little intense. I wouldn’t be into someone who did all that stuff. And I definitely don’t want any guy to purse their lips at me! Nonchalance works too. But it has to be done correctly, or you’ll end up, like jack said, being just a friend and nothing more. </p>
<p>So there’s always that one guy everyone knows, who is the biggest player ever, and has hooked up with half the town (in this case, campus) right? Every girl knows they should stay away from him, and he’s probably dripping with STDs, but he still seems to be getting whatever/whomever he wants. How the hell does he do that? Years ago, I hooked up with someone like that (thinking that I would never, ever get played) and figured it out. The girl has to come to this conclusion in her mind: “I know this is bad, but I really don’t care. This is my decision, and even if I’m getting played, it doesn’t matter.” She has been so manipulated by the guy that she thinks it’s her decision (which it is, but she wouldn’t have made the same choice had it been someone else). Wow, this doesn’t really make sense when I’m typing it out. Anyway, this technique works if you want to be an a**hole, and you have to be super intuitive and manipulative. Seeing as though you have little game right now, I’d work on the basics first.</p>
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<p><a href=“http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_proof[/url]”>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_proof</a></p>
<p>the “purse your lips” thing doesn’t mean recreating magnum from “zoolander.” it’s a very subtle indicator of interest that most men naturally do when talking to a woman they’re interested in; it should be so slight that it’s almost imperceptible.</p>
<p>LOL at Zoolander reference. Yeah, that might be a bit ridiculous. Interesting about the social proof. I’m not sure if it completely applies to my experience though, because I am actually really turned off by guys who have a flock of girls into them. I prefer the quiet, intriguing type. In my case, the guy figured that out about me and become the quiet, intriguing type for about, a month. Haha</p>