I totally get why you’d like her to be fully available to new people at the outset when everyone is in the same boat. With that said, my observation is that over 4 years, many friendships evolve and change and many students closest friends at graduation are not the people they were hanging with freshman year. As long as no really poor choices are made with the BFF, she’s likely to be fine. And maybe even a little more savvy about whose company she keeps going forward. Sure, it’d be best if there were no BFF, but you’re all pretty much stuck with that reality now.
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