<p>Thank you, Klanders. The boys are like my nephews as I’ve known them since birth. The eldest is crawling into himself. Very withdrawn. The “baby” (almost 10) is becoming very clingy. I took the eldest to dinner and to the dollar store the other night, just running my errands. We had a good time. The little one passed. So far things are going ok. Her mom is doing the driving to/from appointments, but I know that’s going to get old. Fast. 
I’m keeping one foot in.</p>
<p>Good luck with your own tests, and I hope things go smoothly for you.</p>