<p>Carolyn–so sorry… i didn’t mean argue in a perjorative sense. However, I did sense some philosophical differences in our outlooks, and I like you too much to want to continue the discussion, even though I agree it’s possible to discuss civilly. Plus, I was ticked off at Lovejoy’s assumption.</p>
<p>The original thread topic is too vital to me, and to the students I work with. I laid out my experiences and what i know to be true, and that’s enough.</p>