<p>For a moment there, this thread got REALLY scary.</p>
<p>I hope that all posters in this forum, parents and students alike, understand that it is meant to be a resource for discussion, information, advice, etc. That means that a healthy discussion of observations about the shortcomings of a certain program based on students’ experiences is definitely fair.</p>
<p>What is unfair is to personally insult people’s parenting, or to make gross insinuations/assumptions about meddling parenting, soft standards, ignorant professors, yadda yadda yadda. We’re all good people, and we’ve all got legitimate views and concerns. I can see that this thread has definitely taken a nice turn back to respectful dialogue, so koodos to all.
With that, allow me to weigh in.</p>
<p>As many of you know, I am a current Engineering student at OSU. I’m in the Honors program, on several academic-based scholarships. I’m only a first-year, so I can only speak of the little wisdom/experience I’ve gained thus far; I know full well that there are many on this forum who have more firsthand experience than me. Now that it’s clear where I’m coming from, allow me to make a few points:</p>
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<li>FEH, Fundamentals of Engineering for Honors, really does care about the freshmen engineers here. Dr. Freuler, the head of First-Year Engineering, is all about helping the students succeed. FEH holds meetings regularly of ALL FEH instructors (in FEH, the Math, Physics, and Engineering profs are ALL part of the FEH team) to address issues in the classroom. Students are allowed to comment EVERY weekend freely and anonymously to the FEH staff if they believe there are teaching issues in Math, Physics, or Engineering. And the best part? They listen.</li>
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<p>I have personally witnessed a change in Lab Report policy based on student comments (we get much better feedback now) and a grading change on a Math midterm (there was a hidden question that half the class never knew was there!).</p>
<p>The resources to help the Honors Engineering kids are there. They know it’s rough.</p>
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<li><p>My first quarter GPA was lower than I had hoped, just a shade above 3. Being one of those over-achieving AP kids in high school, I was aiming for straight A’s, at least a 3.7 or a 3.5. Nope. You know why? I thought one hour of studying each night was enough. And the fact is, in college, it just isn’t for most kids, certainly not for me. You’ve got to work crazy hard, you’ve got to study like mad, and that scant study/homework time you had in high school just doesn’t cut it. I know this now and am doing much better. :-)</p></li>
<li><p>The curves are there to help make engineering / math a little less unfair. A B in a Math class is quite good (remembering that C is supposed to be average, remember?). An A in some GEC classes is just plain expected. To atone for this, there is that curved grading, since University-wide, a letter grade is a letter grade is a letter grade. University-wide honoraries and the like ask for GPA, regardless of major. By adding curves to Math/Engineering classes, it evens out the playing field a bit for those Engineers who are slaving away.</p></li>
<li><p>Engineering is a hard major. It’s just a fact. You WILL work harder than some other majors. Don’t get me wrong, there are some majors out there that make engineering look easy. But Engineering is certainly towards the tough end of the spectrum. It’s the way it is. If you don’t want that, or love math/science enough to struggle through it, then there are certainly many other majors to choose from.</p></li>
<li><p>Big University. That means big opportunities, big resources, but also it means some missteps are just statistically bound to happen. A terrible TA, even a terrible Prof. Bad Profs happen everywhere, even at schools as small as Franklin W. Olin (look it up, it’s tiny!).</p></li>
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<p>BOTTOM LINE: Yep, it’s rough. Yep, it’s tough. And yes, sometimes the system just isn’t all that fair. But there are resources (GOOD profs, free tutoring, study spaces, free workshops on time-management/studying, etc. etc.) to help. And though it takes some getting used to, Engineering is what I love, and accordingly, I found a way.</p>
<p>Thanks,</p>
<p>The Speaker</p>