Work with your counselors to get help with your issues. They are mandatory reporters for abuse and neglect, and they also have access to information about resources in your community. If your situation is truly grim, yes, they can help to have you removed from your home and moved to a safer place. However, I hope that they can help you work out better ways of coping with your parents. Many Chinese immigrant parents grew up with different notions of how best to raise children, and truly do believe that criticizing children is the best way to help children learn to work harder. Perhaps your parents can unlearn some of that.
As for those tardies, get a note from the teacher you are speaking with! That way when you do arrive to your next class a couple of minutes late, the other teacher will be able to remove the tardy note in the attendance report.