Both of my kid’s college graduations were absolutely joyous events for them. Probably the best picture we ever took of my S was from his graduation – standing with a couple of close friends with the biggest smile ever. And my D also absolutely reveled in her day. So it IS the graduates I feel badly for – they will miss the traditional celebration of a rite of passage and and the end of a chapter in their lives.
That said, all kinds of celebrations are being cancelled/postponed – health and safety must take precedence in this difficult time. Hopefully families can find safe. innovative, and meaningful ways to celebrate.