<p>The “send cookies” postcard (Post #13) is the most darling idea ever! My kids and all their friends would adore a gift like that! </p>
<p>When my kids went off to college, I took a photo of them during orientation and used it to make change-of-address cards for them to send to friends and relatives. They used them as thank you notes too. Anyway, along with the college P.O. box, I added a line that said “I’m off to college. Send notes (and cookies) to me here!” All their aunties laughed, but no one sent cookies – well, except for me, of course. 
Your friend sounds wonderful!</p>