@AGmomx2 Rush sounds exactly as when I rushed at my college in SC back in the 1980’s. I rushed because of a close high school friend. We ended up pledging same sorority. Like the OP, I am introverted and I made it through the process. The girls will definitely keep the conversation going so really just relax and be yourself. As for plus size, be yourself and the girls will see past that. I was more of a tomboy and there were definitely sororities I did not fit in well. Alpha Delta Pi was the right one for me. Also, many of my roommates were Chi Omega girls so you really get to know a lot of different girls.