Definitely talk to someone at UD to see whether you qualify.
Sounds like all of the schools have to come off the list (with the possible exception of UD at an in-state rate. OOS is $50K, and $25K merit/discount is unlikely to happen).
She won’t get enough merit at any of the listed schools to get the price close to $25K, assuming you are starting as full pay (which is what I assume you mean when you say their NPC ‘doesn’t look good’).