<p>bar fights are not hot. If you’re trying to protect the girl from gangsters or mobs like in the movies, yeah that’s hot, but dont fight if its not necessary, it just makes you look like some macho creep that just wants to show off his “guns.”</p>
<p>Hmm. I personally think it’s hilarious when dumba$$ dudes just start beating each other for absolutely no reason and make complete fools of themselves. I’ve found the ladies either think they are idiots or are completely turned off by them, leaving those of us who COULD use lethal force if justified to pick and choose from among them.
Usually I will laugh at people who try to fight me, even offer them a drink to calm them down, but if they swing at me they will go to the hospital. (Self defense is a beautiful thing.)
Also, since I am a Marine who is a rifle and pistol expert and owner of an advanced Marine Corps Martial Arts Program belt, I don’t need to prove a darn thing.</p>
<p>AHAHAHAH, yeah dont pick fights in bars, just join the Army or the Marines. Cause guys in the Marine are pretty attractive. But then again, guys who are successful and have goals in life are even better, and also guys who can fix cars, things around the house, can cook. Yep, definitely a plus ;)</p>
<p>It’s nice when a guy knows how to fight, usually those skills go hand in hand with being in shape. Just because he knows how to fight doesn’t mean he needs to prove to everyone he does. Frankly I’d be very embarassed if I hung out with my guy and he started some stupid fight over something dumb (like being called a name).</p>
<p>Stereotypically, girls go for the strong-silent-types. Those guys are able to maintain their cool, which is always awesome.</p>
<p>agreed about ‘strong silent type.’ except–not necessarily silent but just easygoing and won’t lose their cool. guys that are willing to play-fight with me would also be cool =P</p>
<p>I do hope you are not implying that those in the military have no goals or skills other than fighting. That would be a fallacy.<br>
I am heading to grad school in a few months and cook, fold laundry, and do all manner of constructive things in addition to being able to bulls-eye someone from 500 yards.
Don’t count them out offhand 
Of course there ARE always meatheads who like nothing but fighting and drinking, but hey, they’re guys. We are not always the smartest of people.</p>