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<p>Not necessarily true.</p>
<p>I know a no. of real pretty girls who are very down to earth.</p>
<p>Granted, they probably are a minority and hence, in great demand.</p>
<p>The same holds for guys, btw.</p>
<p>The first thing I see in a girl is personality.</p>
<p>Not.</p>
<p>In order of importance:</p>
<p>-Overall face
-Eyes
-Symmetry
-Nose structure
-Teeth
-Boobs
-Eyebrow, brow, and forehead structure
-Legs
-Slimness
-Voice</p>
<p>This is all speaking from the perspective of a first glance. Initial attraction is nice, and it’s hard to find out more about a girl’s personality if you’re not comfortable being around here.</p>
<p>In other terms, in all honesty, and for most teen guys, looks come first. They’re kind of a gateway to finding out about personality.</p>
<p>The most important thing about a girl is her sense of humor. She has to be able to laugh at your jokes.</p>
<p>Seriously though personality is the only thing that matters in a girl, and that’s always been my position. All girls are pretty naturally. You get to know somebody and like them and they start looking better, too.</p>
<p>There’s really only one sort of thing physical attractiveness is good for gauging, and I would agree with some of the other posters that if you are making determinations based on that then you are pretty deplorable.</p>
<p>And by the way I’m a ragin, flamin hetero dude. lol. No excuses guys, come on. Porn is for getting those base thoughts out of your system.</p>
<p>^ lol im pretty sure that you don’t actually believe what you are saying</p>
<p>^ Believe whatever you want.</p>
<p>Indian (because I am as well…). Street and books Smart (I’m Pre-med so I find interest in other premed/predentals)… athletic (I play tennis, hard to find a lot of them, especially that combine with Indian and pre-med haha)… looks are rather complicated, but a smile (I guess face qualifies here) is also important and a lot of motivation/good, smart outlook on the future (long term outlook basically).</p>
<p>^ That would sting more if I didn’t know you were in EE. You see, I know you have no soul, so I know it’s not personal.</p>
<p>^ That’s really how I feel, man. Believe it or not. I don’t think it’s right that women are judged on their looks.</p>
<p>but, people are judged on their intelligence, athletic abilities, musical talents, etc. why is looks different?</p>
<p>yeah its pretty unfair that physical attractiveness should pique sexual interest in a person</p>
<p>Because who you are isn’t the meat puppet that moves around and wears clothes, it’s the intelligence that gives you thoughts and hopes and motivations for doing things.</p>
<p>"yeah its pretty unfair that physical attractiveness should pique sexual interest in a person "
- I never said it didn’t, I just said it was pretty deplorable to base your judgments on how good you think a girl will be in the sack. If you check what I wrote, you’ll see that I never said that looking good didn’t or shouldn’t do that. My position is that the mind gives you the chance to see past that.</p>
<p>Isn’t it kind of arbitrary to say that one part of your DNA doesn’t define who you are, but another part does?</p>
<p>I don’t think so, no. Besides, I’m not necessarily saying you guys should change your minds… the thread asked about what guys are attracted to in girls, I’m a guy, and I gave my opinion. I don’t feel the need to defend it. De gustibus non est disputandum. I do think it’s deplorable to treat women as sex objects (lol, not that women don’t do that to men too) but that’s an opinion too. Clearly there’s nothing incorrect about it, even if I do think it is morally reprehensible.</p>
<p>I like to think I’m a scientific kind of guy, but I think there’s more to it than DNA. But that’s a whole other discussion.</p>
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<p>but you can be interested in women and their appearances sexually without seeing them as sex objects. there isn’t a “respect women”/“look at them sexually” dichotomy.</p>
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<p>Give me a break, I’m all for having a “deeper connection”, but physical attractiveness is the 1st thing that people look at (we can’t help it b/c it’s biological).</p>
<p>A pretty girl (granted, each person has diff. standards as to what they find physically attractive) w/ a bad personality isn’t worth the trouble, otoh, an attractive girl w/ a great personality become even more attractive.</p>
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<p>Attractiveness or beauty has nothing to do w/ how a girl (or guy for that matter) functions, as you say “in the sack.”</p>
<p>Physical appearance is a strong factor for both men and women.</p>
<p>It’s also a strong factor in how men treat other males and how women treat other females, much less how children treat each other.</p>
<p>There’s a reason why babies have “cute” physical attributes - so as to make adults want to take care of them.</p>
<p>Auburn… sorry but I say a “^” below my post… was the 2nd post on this page referring to me??</p>
<p>no, he was referring to me. a mod deleted most of my posts in this thread</p>
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<p>beautiful face
fit/ slim/ athletic
outgoing personality
loving/ caring
INTELLIGENT aka NOT dumbass</p>