OP, you’ve received some incredible advice from many long-time posters who have lived through similar personal experiences with their kids. Definitely read and reflect on their words. I personally find their words and experiences helpful and hopeful, as I’ve been going through a similar experience with one of my kids. Its hard to watch our young adult “kids” struggle and make choices we wouldn’t choose for them. Some days seem impossible, but I am holding on to my faith that everything will work itself out and our kids will come out on the other side, happier and stronger adults for everything they’ve gone through.
The only thing I want to add that could maybe be helpful: there are genetic tests that can help determine which medications can work best with your particular body chemistry. GeneSight is one, there are others. If your daughter is open to meds again at some point, knowing which one(s) would be most effective and which to avoid can save a lot of time and trouble.