<p>I feel for you, because my son has similar stats, and thanks to my finding this website last summer, we learned of the merit aid opps at Alabama (two campuses), LA Tech, and Ole Miss and my son is going to be able to make a choice to attend one of these schools. But for the merit aid, he would not be going out of state, and thanks to the merit aid, it will end up to be equal or less to staying in-state. That said, if he chooses Tuscaloosa, with the full tuition plus engineering awards, we will still have over $10k in costs per year (not including travel and books and misc, and maybe less for housing after freshman year.). If Huntsville, around $9k. Ole Miss around $5k. LA Tech only travel and books (scholarship includes room and board.)</p>
<p>So, yes, you would have qualified for those scholarships, too, but there would have still been expenses in most cases. What have you saved by staying in town and going to the community college? A lot in room and board as well as tuition, I hope. And it sounds like you have had a lot of success building your college transcript so when you do transfer, you will be a very competitive applicant. Before you get too carried away with regret over the missed merit aid opps, consider whether you would have wanted to attend any of those schools even with the merit aid.</p>
<p>LA Tech does have a great engineering program and a very friendly, welcoming environment with a lot of tradition and the school’s price is hard to argue with. Even as a transfer, you would get in-state tuition and they do offer some transfer scholarships in addition. The tuition is so low that the scholarship dollars go far, and housing is comparatively inexpensive, too. Plus there is an awesome local BBQ restaurant there, Dowlings, that I thought was actually going to be the make or break factor for my son (who is still deciding, but also still brings up the sandwich he ate there :). You should definitely consider LA Tech if finances are a top concern along with having access to a very reputable engineering school. Alabama Tuscaloosa and Huntsville are great, too, but tuition is so much higher and out-of-state transfer scholarships don’t make much of a dent.</p>
<p>Because we have yet to visit Ole Miss, I can only say that Ole Miss offers several community college transfer scholarships, and, again, the school’s tuition is much lower than Alabama’s. You might consider applying there after reviewing their scholarship opps for transfer students.</p>
<p>I really hope you won’t spend too much time fretting over possible lost opportunities. And I don’t find your guidance counselor responsible or negligent. Do we really hold these counselors to those expectations? Yes, too bad she did not know about College Confidential and too bad you did not think to spend some time googling college choices before your senior year. I guess information has become so accessible that we take it for granted these days? And sometimes expect others to do the work for us. Seems like high schools these days need to invest some time teaching some life skills, even to our smartest students, and guidance counselors should have a basic awareness of websites to which to direct students.</p>
<p>While I empathize with you, I am hopeful you have learned one life lesson that I, as a GenXer still heard from the baby boomer hippies I grew up around in California: Question Authority. My kids were taught this early, and were taught to do so with respect, but they have never let a guidance counselor or teacher be the final word. Yes, with both them and me questioning authority all the time, our return to homeschooling was inevitable. So I know questioning your guidance counselor was probably not a common practice at your school. Sorry about that, but now you know. It is your life, so Question authority.</p>
<p>You have to be the final word in your own life. You chose to go with the community college recommendation. You have reaped some rewards from that, and, yes, you may have missed out on other opps, but who knows. Accept your choices - you made the best ones you knew how to at the time - and move on to the next challenge: where to complete your bachelors. All is not lost. As you now know, knowledge is power, so put your intellectual skills to work and find every opportunity you can.</p>