<p>Hi There: I am a parent of a senior so I think I can add something to this discussion. HC is a very accepting and laid back school. The honor code promotes mutual trust and understanding and not at all what you daughter fears. A young woman I know who graduated a few years ago always says that there must be someone at HC who is not nice, but she has yet to meet them! HC is a school where fit is especially important. I think if your daughter visits and still has concerns about the honor code then perhaps it isn’t the right school for her. In general, the kids I know who love HC felt at home the moment they stepped on campus. The honor code promotes freedom of thought and belief and does not limit students at all. In terms of drinking, etc. HC kids do party but there is respect for those who choose not to. Quaker bouncers monitor parties for safety -such as making sure that kids get back to their dorm ok - but to turn them in. Hope this helps.</p>