<p>oh and if youre a guy and dont rush, its extremely hard to get into frat parties second semester if you say that youre not rushing. if you do rush, you can get in. however, second semester, if youre not in a frat, its almost impossible for guys alone to get into frats, which take up both friday and saturday nights. if you dont go to frat parties as a freshman, there’s really no where to go on weekends. they rarely let guys in past 11 even if your friends are in there and even if youre friends with the pledges. I’m not trying to turn you away from vandy or greek life, but that’s just how it is.</p>