<p>OK… firstly I don’t understand what you mean by ■■■■■ - I am just looking for help at a very difficult time in our life. I though parents will surely understand either through their own experience or through helping others know how hard this can be. </p>
<p>D collaborated during an exam and got cited. She says she did not show her paper to the other student. School says it violated their code so she got suspnd. She has to spend a year away and cannot return in the fall. She tried to appeal but was already shattered and they were not allowed to have any attorney representation so did it on her own. We were experiencing a family illness at the time so she did not want burden us further with her worries. Now I wish I could have helped at that time and if I can reactivate the appeal as a parent. I am just heartbroken to learn of this all since she is such a good person who used poor judgement. But that still leaves me worried about what to do next. I am concerned about D’s emotional well being even if she returns. She was unhappy at the college and really does not want to return. As a parent what should I do?</p>