<p>I remember dropping our S (first child going to college) off at Colgate. After moving him in, H and I attended a parent meeting. They essentially said “It’s time to go home. Your kids needs to learn how to deal with decisions, stress and difficulties. Do not try to help them w/ every issue. We will call you if it is necessary.” They also said “Do not tell your kids that these are the best times of your life. Colgate students will often have a lot of stress because of the demands of school. If they are feeling down, or stressed, they do not need to hear that these are the best times!”</p>
<p>Our S, unfortunately, did have some problems. Colgate was excellent about informing us. I really credit them w/ seeing a problem, and informing us, before it was too late. Our S is now a proud alumni of Colgate.</p>