Yes, and to @meetme_atmidnight i would like to offer an easy update:
i did leave, and now i attend public school. i had the EXACT same situation where i was recommended BS by many. i think part of the reason why it didn’t work out was the fact that i definitely picked the wrong school, and also that i wasn’t ready to navigate life on my own. i also benefit from structure, and boarding school didn’t have that for me as much as public school did. now, to be fair, my public school is smaller than most boarding schools - and my teachers are my coaches and whatnot. so the community is a lot more present than most public schools. i think you need to think deeply about what schools you are applying to as well. for someone that needs structure, andover and exeter may not have that as much as a school like mercersberg or george, where structure and personalized attention are a lot greater.
I also struggled with mental health and “got over it.” but a new environment with new people often brings back new problems for those who weren’t truly over it.
I would also like to state that in my public school i’m in the top 10% (i was probably around the middle 50, maybe a little higher in BS), and my psat score rose over 100 pts from sophomore to junior year, because i was much better supported socially and academically.
im a senior now, and i would also like to state that my college lists look a lot different than they would’ve had i stayed. im applying to SLACs, and i would’ve been applying to my safeties as a reach had i stayed.
i go to a top 10 public school in new york, so my public school is academically rigorous. i just get less homework and more time to do in school activities. im usually at school from 7:45 to 5:30 every day, very often until 7 or 8 and sometimes later. often i go back and forth 3 times a day from school for social events, school events, and sports outings. i’m also at school at least once a weekend.
my public school also made it possible to get my diagnosis for autism, and get the supporting accommodations a lot of private schools don’t do or have.
if you think public school is the enemy, it is possible you have made it that way for yourself. i know i did.