<p>I wish I could wait, but she has no money at the moment. She has borrowed from friends to get by, but I hate to continue to do that. Plus, I now am a bit leary of my son having his and her ATM and credit cards. If he loses his wallet, we really will be in trouble!</p>
<p>I think sending them on together through Fedex or UPS will be ok. If something happens, we will just get them replaced again! I had not planned to activate them until she receives the cards; I will email her the number to call or I will call for her. I do not think the ATM card will have an activation number as they mail the pin at a later date; although she was told she could keep the same pin.</p>