HELP (decision time) - Rutgers or Northeastern?

Thanks everyone for your help! I was hoping I wouldn’t be gunned down as immature for some of the factors I listed and I appreciate your understanding for an anxious high school student. I will certainly give both schools consideration. But just to conclude, do you guys think the additional PLUS loans that my parent would have to take out (probably between 20-30k over 4 years) are manageable if I’m helping to pay them off and my father makes about 55k a year? Thank you.