@Dadoroc
Given your situation, the only choices (unless you want to be in a lot of debt, which obviously is a terrible option at the moment) are SUNY or a college that meets 100% of demonstrated need. It seems that your D did not apply to any schools that meet 100% of financial need, so the only financially responsible choice is a SUNY. If she’s majoring in an area of theater, SUNY Purchase is excellent!
The only other option is take a gap year and reapply to colleges that meet full financial need.
FWIW, Fordham is not a college at the top of the list of financial strength. Its endowment per student is $<50k, which puts it at a rank of 329. For comparison, the #1-ranked endowment per student is Princeton, at $3M. Another Catholic college, for comparison, Boston College, has an endowment per student of $204k, with a rank of 92. George Washington U, to compare another big-city college, is at $86k and a rank of 197.
Fordham’s peers on the measure of endowment per student are Converse College (South Carolina), Central Methodist University of Liberal Arts (Missouri), and University of St. Thomas (Minnesota). Those are the three just above Fordham in the endowment/student rankings.