I agree it is hard to recommend schools without knowing what your budget is, and whether you would qualify for need aid.
If you like, you can try out the NPC at a college like Princeton. You don’t have to actually want to apply to Princeton, it will just give you a sort of best case scenario for need aid.
If you tell us your budget and what you would pay at Princeton, that will then help guide recommendations.
The other thing we would need to know is what you are looking for in a college experience besides just good engineering/CS. Large school? Small school? Urban, suburban, college town? Non-academic activities, including sports? Any regional preferences? Greek life, yes/no/indifferent? And so on.
The basic situation is there are many, many good undergraduate engineering/CS programs in the US. So subject to your budget, you can be choosey about other things too.