Why not start frugalizing now, so that you can see what frugalization is realistic in your life? Plus, you will start saving money now instead of later.
Cancel the fancy health club. Perhaps sign up for a low cost gym if you go regularly, or look for low cost alternatives (e.g. a pullup bar that you can put in a doorway).
Sell the expensive watches.
Look for lower cost dinner options.
Sell the expensive vehicle(s). Replace with less expensive ones if necessary (including consideration of fuel, maintenance, insurance costs).
Cancel the cable television. Or switch to a lower cost plan if available.
Cut what you see are the unnecessary extra $10,000 on the kid's club soccer. Is this due to traveling luxuriously rather than frugally?
Go to the library and read Stanley/Danko *The Millionaire Next Door*, Stanley *Stop Acting Rich*, etc..