Southern Oregon University or Lewis&Clark are likely closer than SDSU. So check them out.
If your parents want to help, ask them what with – move in day? Medicine not at the college’s clinic? (Try not being snarky, try to have a neutral tone; sometimes this sentence indicates parents who have trouble imagining their kid is no longer at home; they just want to be nearby as a way tonreassure themselves. Obviously you may have a disability or illness that makes them think you’d need help butbusually once in college students try to handle things themselves).