Padr…contact the schools. Apply for a non-custodial parent waiver for the Profile. Ypu will need to provide documentation regarding your lack of contact with your dad. This could be a letter from a minister, rabbi, counselor…someone who is not a family member. Discuss this with your school counselor at your high school. If your dad has never been on your school records, and has never been involved with school, perhaps they will help.
You might get the waivers…and you might not. But try.
If you don’t get a waiver, you will be expected to get that NCP info.
Your lack of contact over 18 years, and hopefully your mom’s lack of contact…could, if supported by an outside source, get you a NCP waiver.