@twoinanddone Wasn’t Arnold providing some sort of support…secretly?
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Do they really expect me to dig up his number after he abandoned us 18 years ago and ask for his help?
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probably not.
Does your rabbi know you and your mom? If so, ask him/her if they can write a letter stating that your bio-dad has never been in your life, you’ve never met him, he’s never paid support.
Have you sent emails to your schools asking for waivers and the process?